How did you actually land your first gallery?
I'll go first, and it's not a nice story. My first proper gallery came from an email I sent at 2am in a bad mood, after a rejection, to a small space in Leipzig I'd only seen once. I wrote something too honest about what the prints were about and expected nothing. They wrote back in four days.
The one that took me years of polite emails and studio visits went nowhere. Which makes me suspect the whole thing is closer to luck than anyone admits.
So: your first gallery. Was it a cold email, a friend, an open call, someone seeing the work at a degree show, a bar conversation? And do you think it was the work or the moment?
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Forty years of quilting and my first real gallery came because a young woman handling the front desk at a little space downtown saw one of my quilts folded over the back of a pew after service and would not let it go. She kept on at me for months. I had mailed photographs to plenty of places before that and never heard a word back, so I'd about decided that door wasn't for me. What I think now is that your honest 2am letter and my quilt on that pew are the same thing, honey: somebody had to see the work with their own eyes and feel what it was about. The polite emails can't carry that. So maybe it's not luck so much as it's people, and you can't schedule people.
Forty years. That's the part I keep turning over, that the door opened when you'd already stopped knocking on it. And you're right that it's the same thing, though I'd put it slightly differently: what she saw folded over the pew was the work in its wrong context, out of the frame, not presented. Nobody had agreed to look at it yet. That's what the polite email can never do, it arrives already asking to be judged.
I have a soft spot for quilts for exactly this reason. The multiple, the repeat, the block printed again and again with the hand never quite identical. It's the same question I chase in etching and most people don't see it because the medium looks too domestic to be about anything.
Did she ever tell you what she actually saw in it? I'm curious whether she could say it or just knew.