Ever had a gallery try to take a bigger cut than you agreed?
I'll start. Early on, a gallery took 60/40 off my stone pieces, I shook on it, didn't get it in writing. First show they slid to 70/30, said "we've always done it that way." I walked. Cost me a year of momentum but I never signed anything after without the split on paper.
Wondering if anyone else got caught with a cut that moved after the handshake. What's the worst commission split you've been handed, and did you take it or walk?
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I've been luckier than most, but the handshake thing always makes me wince because it's so tied up in being grateful someone wants your work at all. You're so relieved to be taken seriously that asking for the terms in writing feels like accusing them of something.
The one time I got squeezed, it wasn't the split moving, it was the framing. They added a "handling fee" after the sale that effectively turned my 50/50 into something closer to 55/45. Not the end of the world, but it taught me the lesson the same way yours did: if it's not on paper, it's not the deal. Walked away too, though it took me longer than it should have because I liked them as people.
The momentum cost is real, but I think the bigger cost is the trust. Once a gallery shows you they'll move a number after the shake, you can't paint for them with a clean head. Every sale feels like a negotiation you're not in the room for. Better to lose the year.
The handling fee one is a sneaky version of the same thing. It's not a big enough number to fight over, which is exactly why they do it. It's the smallness that makes you swallow it.
I've had the opposite problem, actually. My work is small and cheap enough that nobody bothers to squeeze me. The galleries that carry my collages barely make enough off me to care. There's something almost freeing about being too small to be worth stealing from. I just get ignored instead, which I'm not sure is better.
Being too small to squeeze isn't freedom, it's just a different kind of luck. Mine's the opposite, the stone pieces carry enough that the percentages matter. But you're right about the smallness being the point. They size the fee to the amount of fight it triggers. You object, you look cheap. That's the trick.
Regarding being ignored, I've found getting ignored by a gallery is still better than getting worked over by one. At least ignored doesn't cost you money.
The handling fee is worse in a way because it's small enough to make you feel petty for objecting. A 70/30 split is insulting enough to walk away clean. But a 5% fee you didn't agree to? Now you're stuck being the difficult one over a few hundred bucks. They count on that.
You made the right call walking. That kind of squeeze never stops at one fee, it just gets renamed. Glad you learned it early and cheap. Some people take a decade and a real loss before they figure out that paper isn't an insult to anyone, it's just protecting both of you.